Has your idea of what makes a good friend changed as you’ve gotten older?
It’s not about quantity; it’s about quality. A good friend is someone you can count on in good times and in bad.
Trustworthy in keeping your secrets and not gossiping about you.
Even if it’s a good friend who lives far away and you don’t see often, when you’re together, it’s like no time has passed between you.
I can count the true friendships I have on one hand, but they are sacred. All others are acquaintances or situational friends. They don’t stand the test of time.
My oldest and dearest friend has been my friend for 70 years. I am 73 so that tells you how long our friendship has lasted. I see her maybe once a year and talk to her monthly. We text more often. But when together it is like we see each other all the time. No awkwardness or discomfort.
I cherish this friendship and several others.
