Off On Our Next Adventure

It was so difficult packing for this trip. We are going to England and then cruising to Iceland. It is a wee bit colder there than it is in south Florida. So mostly long sleeve stuff with rain gear and hopefully that works out.

Our ride by Lyft was fairly uneventful. We arrived at the airport with four hours to kill.

We went to the Centurion Lounge but they wouldn’t let us in. Only 3 hours before flights. Wow! Kind of annoying since it was only 25 minutes. Oh well. So we waited and entered at the right time.

We had our fill of wraps and chicken. Bruce had soup. All was good.

For this flight, we booked economy basic which was $1300 each round trip. My American Express Platinum card gave me a $200 Airline Credit and American was my airline of choice. I booked two exit-row seats at $141 each. So it cost me $82 out of pocket. The seats were pretty good. Bruce had lots of legroom but the seats are not very wide. We missed our business class seats.

Now we are staying for two nights in Southampton at the Doubletree by Hilton. My gold status gives us free breakfast. It was $175 a night and using points doesn’t make sense. So another expenditure to add to my cheap cruise.

We had pizza for dinner and Bruce had the real sticky toffee pudding.

Today we are out and about in Southampton. It’s a bigger city than we thought.

I love the old walls and architecture.

The old buildings.

And of course churches. We visited St. Michael’s Church.

Next, we stopped at St. Joseph’s church.

Southampton once had a wall built around it to protect it from raiders. Now there are only pieces of it standing here and there.

Just a bit of walking and we were ready for a stop. We found The Pig in the Wall which is also an inn.

I had a cappuccino and oatmeal raisin cookie and Bruce had a strawberry cake.

We spent the afternoon at the SeaCity Museum in Southampton. It was fairly comprehensive on the lives of the crew of the Titanic, especially those who resided in Southampton, the ships departure port to the US.

The SeaCity Museum was housed in a fairly old building. The restroom was quite interesting.

For dinner we ate at M’Dim Sum.

It was an amazing meal but it could have fed 4 people. Our starter included spring rolls, chicken satay, toast, and ribs.

Our next course was Peking duck and its trimmings.

Followed by sweet and sour chicken, fried rice, Chinese vegetables and steak with mushrooms.

We had so much leftover, that we took a to-go bag and gave it to a homeless person sleeping on the street. He seemed very grateful. If you ever have leftovers and are in a city with lots of homeless, its better to give food then money.

We walked 5 miles today but it felt like 10. I am realizing how out of shape I am. This vacation I plan on building my stamina and hopefully not eating too much!

If I hosted a Dinner

If you could host a dinner and anyone you invite was sure to come, who would you invite?

Now who would I invite? Who would I want to come to my house for dinner? Well, I’d love to have my mom and dad who are both gone along with my grandparents who are long gone. And some aunts and uncles.

Why? I would love to sit at a table with all of them as a grownup. To see what it was like from a grownup perspective. As a child, there always seemed to be some foreign intrigue. Things hidden from the children.

I’d also like to know more about my roots. All my ancestors were from Sweden. They emigrated to the US before WWI.

I guess I just have questions and it would be great to sit with all of them and ask away!

Wisdom

What do you think gets better with age?

As I age, I realize how little I knew. When I was young I thought I knew everything. But as I grew older, as each year passed, I became wiser in the knowledge of how little I know.

It’s a common saying, “I wish I knew at 20 what I know now.”

How true this is. With age comes wisdom. That is if you keep on being willing to learn and don’t think you know everything.

Do besides fine wines and cheese our minds get better with age until they don’t.

Bedtime

What time do you go to bed and wake up currently?

I was always a night owl. But as I get older not so much.

Usually I go to bed around 10 to 10:30 and read for a bit. Sometimes I doze off quickly sometimes I read for an hour or two.

I wake up around 7:30 or 8 and do my morning ritual. Coffee, meditation, writing and playing around on my phone. Then I head to the gym.

I figure I average about 6 hours of sleep every night and that seems to work for me. I don’t usually feel tired.

Comfort

What strategies do you use to increase comfort in your daily life?

What do I do to increase comfort? I start my day slowly with coffee, meditation, writing, and relaxing.

I workout. Working out helps alleviate the pains and aches in my body,

I chat with friends and family.

And I laugh. Laughter heals.

I’m retired so rushing to work is no longer needed. My children are grown so they don’t need to be tended to.

Actually, I have a very comfortable life!

Peace and Harmony

What could you let go of, for the sake of harmony?

I live for that. When I live in harmony, all is right with the world.

I’d let go of toxic relationships, even with family members if they affected my harmony.

I’d give up traveling if it started to cause too much anguish thus affecting harmony.

I’d let go of all that creates drama and chaos in my life.

Actually, I’ve done most of these things with the exception of travel. That still fills me with positivity.

Music

What is your favorite genre of music?

I really love music. It depends on my mood which is my favorite. In July 4th at the fireworks, the band played a lot of rock oldies from 60s and 70s – some CCC, Rolling Stones, Cream, Who. It was a blast.

I like Broadway show music if I want to do a singalong. And I love folk music.

But I like going to the symphony. I enjoy all the masters,

I like Celtic music. And I like tribal music.

Music is what ignites me or quiets my soul.

Climbing Bwindi to see the Mountain Gorillas

Describe your most memorable vacation.

I’ve had so many memorable vacations traveling the globe enjoying different cultures, eating different foods and meeting some very interesting people. But by far my trip to Uganda, climbing the Bwindi Impenetrable Rainforest stands out. For one, Africa and the great apes have been on my bucket list since I saw my first Tarzan movie as a very little girl.

Our trek was 2 hours up a mountain and partway down the other side, where we finally encountered the gorilla family.

This was Rohendeeza – the oldest gorilla known at this time in 2011. I was about 5 inches away from him before I took this photo.

We also spent time checking out other wildlife such as the chimpanzees.

And giraffes!