Learning Not To Judge People

When I was a young adult working in New York City as well as living there, I happened to meet an older gentleman at the bank. This was long before direct deposit, so weekly I made my way across 46th Street to the bank.
While waiting in line, this man who by all appearances looked like a street person, with tattered clothes and obviously unwashed, happened to speak with me. He had good diction, was polite, and didn’t do anything inappropriate. We chatted for awhile and he mentioned he had lived in New York all his life.
The bank was selling Unicef cards and he said he wanted to buy me some. Of course, I said No and finally, it was my time for the teller.
On my way out of the bank, he handed me a box of cards insisting that I take them. I thanked him and left hoping he hadn’t stolen them.
The following week I was in the bank again cashing my paycheck. I asked the teller about the man and I described him. She chuckled and then told me that he was the largest depositor in that institution.
I learned that day to never judge people by clothes, appearance or preconceived notions. You can’t judge a book by its cover.

Published by lisanordlund1

In 2015, I retired and my goal was to do as much traveling as I possibly could. I started the blog for our first month long trip to Panama in October 2015. My sister Linda and her husband Stan joined Bruce and I on our first trip and we decided together on the name the four amigos. Since then, we don’t always travel with them, sometimes just Bruce and I, sometimes other people, whoever wants to join us on our crazy journeys. The name stuck and I grew an affinity to it. So here we are. I invite you to join thefouramigos blog on our next destination.

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